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#354818 - 06/12/10 03:20 PM prostate massage experience
clarkson Offline
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Can anyone (the more the better, of course) tell me how it feels when you massage your prostate with finger(s) or prostate massager/stimulator such as Aneros.

It was said that prostate massage works on some people and some people do not feel a thing. I am really interested in this stimulation and want to know how different it feels with and without prostate massage during masturbation. Do people really have some kind of enjoyable muscle spasm and have very long-lasting orgasm with no ejaculation?

Anyone who experienced prostate massage and found it enjoyable, please tell us and describe how amazing it really is. Those who found it not enjoyable, please share your feelings too. \:D

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#354830 - 06/13/10 01:26 PM Re: prostate massage experience [Re: clarkson]
Roc Offline

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Hey Clarkson,
It varies for men. Some men have never tried it and never will. They think its really gay if you explore pleasure with your ass. I on the other hand your ass is a very sensitive area. The prostate is located inside between your asshole and your balls. try using a vibrator on the outside and message the gouch area. as you masturbate. the vibration alone with help increase your pleasure when you cum.

personally, mine is rather sensitive. every time I have to get my prostate check for the annual physical, i usually shoot a huge load as soon as the doctor runs his finger across it. It's pretty weird to shoot load without being hard but it feels intense nonetheless.

I suggest experimenting on your own and finding out if it works for you. but in most cases, most men will not confide that they like it. They will keep that very private. an example... My brother told me there was no way he would ever stick his or anyone else's finger up his butt and do that... ever! yet his wife told me he really loves it when she sticks her fingers up his ass and rubs his prostate when she's blowing him. She says it really make him cum hard and delivers a huge load....

Men!
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#355048 - 06/24/10 03:51 PM Re: prostate massage experience [Re: Roc]
clarkson Offline
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Roc, thank you for your reply.
I am a bit surprised that there is only one reply.

I think enjoying the prostate pleasure is something very new and exciting to me, but I am not sure if I can do it right.
I tried to insert my finger into my ass. My ass is so sensitive that I got an erection soon after my finger passed through my asshole. I do not know if I get to my prostate because the penetration is already a very strong stimulation to me. I read some articles that prostate is like a walnut, but I do not feel something hard and like a walnut.
I felt that I cum stronger when I had my finger in my ass. The contraction was very strong, but I was not sure if it had something to do with the prostate or just because my asshole was being stimulated.

I am curious as you said you usually shoot a huge load as soon as the doctor runs his finger across your prostate. You mean your prostate is so sensitive that you instantly shoot a huge load without being hard? Did you warn the doctor that you need to prepare tissue paper and cover yourself so you do not shoot on the bed or floor? Did your doctor find it surprising as you shot without being hard and just a tiny touch across your prostate?

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#355087 - 06/25/10 12:15 PM Re: prostate massage experience [Re: clarkson]
NtroducingMyself Offline
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 Quote:
I do not know if I get to my prostate because the penetration is already a very strong stimulation to me. I read some articles that prostate is like a walnut, but I do not feel something hard and like a walnut.


To feel the prostate you are going to have to do more then just insert your fingers to feel it. You are going to need to press up towards your penis while inside your rectum to actually feel the prostate. You shouldn't have to press overly deep but gentle pressure and you should feel a walnut shaped gland; that will be your prostate :). I do notice that the more excited I am or my partner is the easier the prostate is to find because it gets more "swollen" and/or hard they closer you get to orgasm.

Hope that helps \:\)
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#355099 - 06/26/10 10:56 AM Re: prostate massage experience [Re: clarkson]
Roc Offline

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Hey Clark,
That is exactly what I mean. I actually had never had my prostate touched before that first time in the doctors office. I was a little worried asking if the prostate exam hurt. He assured me it would be a little uncomfortable but not painful. I can still remember it. He had me laying on my left side facing the front edge of the exam table. He stood in front of me and asked me to bring my right knee to my chest. He put some clear lubricant on his gloved fingers and inserted them. I remember feeing a little pressure and then he must have touched it because there was this undescriable feeling. Something I had never felt before and in split seconds felt these fast convulsions contraction type of a feeling from between my ass and my balls and I shot a huge load all over me, his hand and onto the floor.

I was so embarrassed. He just walked over the the counter grabbed some tissues and handed them to me to clean up. I kept saying I was so sorry. He took his glove off washed his hand and explained to me it was okay. it was common for men to sometimes react to their prostate being touched. He explained how the prostate works and what it does in the whole scheme of things. He did tell me he had never seen someone produce such a healthy amount of semen with the exam but assured me everything was normal. I just had a very sensitive prostate.

I really was into stimulating it as much as I could. I found that the have many kinds of products that you can purchase to help with your prostate stimulation. I bought a few but determined that there were only two that I really used. It turns out I enjoy the vibration the best. one was just a simple bullet shaped vibrator. It cost about $10.00 buck and was great. I could work the whole area. I also purchased something from Seb Cox in the UK http://tinyurl.com/tantrick
Give it a try and see what works for you. There nothing wrong with doing something that make you feel good and satisfied.
Have fun. Hope this helped.
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#355693 - 08/07/10 10:25 PM Re: prostate massage experience [Re: Roc]
eahistory22 Offline


Registered: 08/04/10
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It's nice to see more guys being curious about their prostates. For so long it just seemed like everyone thought it was just for gay men. Their loss I guess.

Anyway there's lot of prostate stimulator toys out there that are designed to make massaging your own prostate super easy and enjoyable. I'd recommend starting there.

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#355751 - 08/09/10 07:48 PM Re: prostate massage experience [Re: Roc]
Still077 Offline


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I'd go further to almost say that prostate massage is barely worth it without a good toy. The prostate is pretty deep up in there so your fingers aren't always good enough to hit. Plus you have to like bend around at weird angles to get there which screws up your focus and makes it harder to jerk off at the same time. There are some hands-free toys that solve all those problems - I'd definitely recommend picking up one of those.

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#355862 - 08/13/10 12:20 PM Re: prostate massage experience [Re: Still077]
NtroducingMyself Offline
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Actually the prostate is not "Pretty deep up there", it's only about 2 inches inside the rectum. You just need to know where to find it and what you are feeling for ;\)

If you press up towards the penis from the inside of the rectum you should feel a walnut shaped/sized gland, that's the prostate.

I will agree, however, that if you are flying solo its easier to hit and stimulate the prostate by using a toy, but certainly not impossible \:\)
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#356505 - 11/13/10 02:40 AM Re: prostate massage experience [Re: NtroducingMyself]
clarkson Offline
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Registered: 12/31/05
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Loc: Hong Kong
 Originally Posted By: NtroducingMyself
Actually the prostate is not "Pretty deep up there", it's only about 2 inches inside the rectum. You just need to know where to find it and what you are feeling for ;\)

If you press up towards the penis from the inside of the rectum you should feel a walnut shaped/sized gland, that's the prostate.

I will agree, however, that if you are flying solo its easier to hit and stimulate the prostate by using a toy, but certainly not impossible \:\)


2 inches only? I did not know that.
And yes, using my own finger is quite tiring and my arm hurts when I do it for a longer time.

Getting a toy... hmm...

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#361035 - 09/12/13 07:58 PM Re: prostate massage experience [Re: clarkson]
dianeandrews Offline
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Registered: 09/12/13
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Loc: USA
I replied to this yesterday, but it seems my replies were removed, so I will replay again in hopes I don't get removed again. BTW, totally not fair.

Anyway... let me try it this way and see if I am allowed to stay and participate in a subject that I am ACTUALLY quite interested in.

I did this to my man for the first time in his life a couple of years ago, and since we have tried all different ways. He loves just my fingers, but we have used toys and such as well and he loves those too.

I am curious to hear from other men who have played around with this technique. Is there a particular way that feels best for you? Any new ideas to make it feel even better? Any particular toys that feel the best?

I'm so glad to have a man who enjoys this, because I really enjoy it a lot as well, so I'm happy to hear of ways to make it even more fun for him.

Thanks!

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#361036 - 09/12/13 08:18 PM Re: prostate massage experience [Re: clarkson]
dianeandrews Offline
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Registered: 09/12/13
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Loc: USA
I read on another forum about this Aneros? Hope I spelled that right. Is this a good "toy" to use?

Does anyone here like vibration/dislike vibration? I have yet to try that method.

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