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#247251 - 11/17/06 08:42 PM does it gross u out???
Curious2006 Offline
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ok....my boyfriend said that it wouldent gross him out to have sex with me on my period. personally i think if i was a gye it would gross me out really bad if my girlfriend was on her period if we had sex....it kinda surprised me to hear him say that it wouldent gross him out. my question is....if ur a girl, does it gross out ur partner to have sex with u while ur on ur period.....and gyes, would it gross u out to have sex with a girl on her period?....all responces are very much apreciated thank you

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#247253 - 11/17/06 08:48 PM Re: does it gross u out???
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I don't think I'd let sex happen if I was on my period. Not because it grosses me out, but because it would be hard as hell to clean up. If you did it in the shower or something that might work fine, but anywhere else you'd need to be really careful. I just wouldn't like explaining a blood stain on the bed or couch, that's all.
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#247254 - 11/17/06 08:53 PM Re: does it gross u out???
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I'm gonna have to say that yes this would gross me out, just because I don't like seeing blood.
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#247255 - 11/17/06 08:56 PM Re: does it gross u out???
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yeah i thought about that and his answer was to put a dark colored towel down first so that we could just toss it in the wash if nessiccary....but other than the mess it really wouldent gross u all out?....cuz it would make me kinda embaresed if i got blood all over him...unless i knew for a fact that he wouldent be grossed out (hes already told me that he wouldnt be, but i wasnt sure if he was just saying that so i wouldent feel bad if i ever did bleed on him...or should i just take what he said at face value?)

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#247256 - 11/17/06 09:04 PM Re: does it gross u out???
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Maybe he just doesn't mind blood, or really likes it. You should ask him if you're so worried. I'm sure he'd be happy to answer questions if it would help you better understand his thoughts.

At least the blood would act as more lubrication, there's an upside I suppose.
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#247257 - 11/17/06 09:11 PM Re: does it gross u out???
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no it wouldnt gross me out
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#247258 - 11/17/06 09:16 PM Re: does it gross u out???
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The beginning and end of a period is OK, but in the middle of a heavy flow? I'll pass.

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#247259 - 11/17/06 10:29 PM Re: does it gross u out???
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I'd be more inclined to have sex towards the end of my period.
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#247260 - 11/17/06 11:33 PM Re: does it gross u out???
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I have a saying I use... it's a mix of my sense of humor and attitude, "A little blood never hurt anyone"

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#247261 - 11/18/06 12:08 AM Re: does it gross u out???
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Yeah, but it's not JUST blood... There are... Chunks... of stuff. I would have to say no, because I would not be in the mood, and because I would also be grossed out.
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#247262 - 11/18/06 12:16 AM Re: does it gross u out???
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Haha, that's where my sense of humor comes in. I'm not squeamish, so bodily fluids generally doesn't bother me.

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#247263 - 11/18/06 07:48 PM Re: does it gross u out???
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I believe the "chunks" you are referring to are clots of blood.
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#247264 - 11/19/06 04:54 AM Re: does it gross u out???
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Yeah, I'd wouldn't wanna root on my period. It's not just the blood, it's more that I just don't feel sexy round that time, I feel grose and...icky. lol, and mostly because I'd be worried about what my partner was thinking, ick, embaressing really.

Hehe, sorry but this reminds me of a joke someone exellent told me: Don't trust anything that bleeds for 5 days but dosn't die.
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#247265 - 11/19/06 01:07 PM Re: does it gross u out???
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In reply to:

Don't trust anything that bleeds for 5 days but dosn't die.







oo that was also in South Park: Bigger, Longer, and Uncut
In reply to:

Mr. Garrison: Well I'm sorry Wendy but, I just don't trust anything that bleeds for five days and doesn't die.




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#247266 - 11/19/06 02:12 PM Re: does it gross u out???
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I find that joke to be sexist, IMO. I never liked it.
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#247267 - 11/19/06 08:01 PM Re: does it gross u out???
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I always have a counter for that:

"Men should try bleeding from the penis for a week, then see how they feel about girls on their periods."
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#247268 - 11/19/06 08:29 PM Re: does it gross u out???
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It doesn't gross my guy out apparently. See I never wanted to have sex etc during it, because I thought he would think it was icky. But we ended up having sex yesterday during it, but my flow must have been pretty light at the time because there was no mess or blood. He said he wouldn't have minded if there had been a mess though, he expected it. Now sometimes during my period I wouldn't want to fool around.

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#247269 - 11/20/06 05:00 AM Re: does it gross u out???
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Actually now that you put it in context it sounds familla. That's not where I hurd it though.

And, Classy Black woman, It's sposta be sexest, I think that's why it's funny.
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#247270 - 11/20/06 12:34 PM Re: does it gross u out???
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Been there, done that, not going back again (unless by accident...once you're past a certain point it's gonna happen regardless). It's not the blood itself that turns me off...it's the smell. Some guys don't smell anything...more power to 'em, I guess. But I've been blessed (or cursed) with a sensitive nose. Smell is bigtime important to me, period or not...which has been an unwelcomed obstacle in the past.

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#247271 - 11/20/06 01:20 PM Re: does it gross u out???
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It's actually a Roy Chubby Brown joke, the man is sexist, but, if you take it as a bit of light humour, he can be very funny... IMO life is to short to take such things seriously, if you don't have a sense of humour about things, you'll never smile!

Dan
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#247272 - 11/20/06 01:22 PM Re: does it gross u out???
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If a girl is on a heavy flow day, does the guy even feel it? I have never asked, I mean I guess he does if he comes, but for me, the blood just made it too slippery and I didn't feel it that much...Not to mention all the clean up.YUCK!
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#247273 - 11/20/06 01:29 PM Re: does it gross u out???
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Yeah...I ruined a mattress once. As somebody mentioned, best done in a bathtub or somewhere (out in the woods, for example) where you don't have to worry about cleaning it up. As for feeling it or not, I'd say it depends on the girl more than whether she's on her period or not.

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#247274 - 11/20/06 05:49 PM Re: does it gross u out???
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My experience has been the opposite - when a tampon has just been taken out she tends to be rather dry inside.

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#247275 - 11/20/06 06:22 PM Re: does it gross u out???
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Not all girls use those, you know...perhaps a solution for some?


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#247276 - 11/20/06 08:41 PM Re: does it gross u out???
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thanks for all of your replies...its kinda weird we did try it and there really wasnt anyblood. it seemed kinda like the flow stoped durring the process...but started again like an hour or so later, so there was vertualy no mess. i was pretty happy bout that....i would have been none to pleased if i had to give up snuggle time to clean up

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#247277 - 11/21/06 06:43 PM Re: does it gross u out???
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I'm fine with having sex while my parnter is having her period, and so is she (as long as she knows I'm fine with it). We haven't missed a day in months, and period days are no exception.

Regarding the mess as some have posted, it really isn't a problem for us. Yeah there's a little blood on the bed covers, but it washes out and it's no worse than a semen stain.

I suppose during the heavy part of her period we just keep it confined to the bed so we don't have the 'mess' anywhere else around the house.

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#247278 - 11/21/06 07:03 PM Re: does it gross u out???
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ummmm, I've done it before but it's because she didn't tell me, and i didn't notice untill, well blood got all over the sheets..and it kinda made me really sick.if she would told me i would've waited untill it was over...or just did anal(jk) i can wait a week.

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#247279 - 11/21/06 08:16 PM Re: does it gross u out???
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Sometimes, when a girl is younger or if she has irregular periods, it's hard to tell when her period is coming. I'm sure she would have told you if she knew.
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#247280 - 11/21/06 09:22 PM Re: does it gross u out???
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Sometimes also the act of intercourse itself can bring on a period that wouldnt have started otherwise for some time, from hours to a day or two, so maybe you were more responsible for the mess than she was.

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#247281 - 11/22/06 06:19 PM Re: does it gross u out???
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Haha, good point Starfish.

I don't know about anyone else, but the one birth control pill I was on made my periods very light. So it was never a big issue.
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#247282 - 11/23/06 08:11 AM Re: does it gross u out???
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I've had sex while I've been on my period before.. and I found what you did - the blood kinda stops. I think it might be due to the natural lube that you produce, maybe watering it down a little? *ponders*

It bothers me having sex when I first start my period, when its pretty heavy, but after a couple of days its not so bad
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#247283 - 11/30/06 10:25 PM Re: does it gross u out???
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It's really no big deal...I don't think most guys are "grossed out by it"....

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#247284 - 12/01/06 09:53 AM Re: does it gross u out???
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It can also help relieve some of the pains from cramping I find. Also due to the cramps I think I find I am more tender inside, that the guy has to be more gentle. The shower is the best place for this...all the bad stuff washes away and no worries about making a mess somewhere.

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#247285 - 12/01/06 06:21 PM Re: does it gross u out???
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Sounds like a plan

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#251733 - 01/01/07 10:15 AM Re: does it gross u out??? [Re: fallen_angel]
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Originally Posted By: fallen_angel
It can also help relieve some of the pains from cramping I find.



could this count for fingering or just intercourse?
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#252132 - 01/02/07 05:15 PM Re: does it gross u out??? [Re: Pinkflamingo]
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if the feeling is there, then it's all good with me
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#252227 - 01/02/07 09:54 PM Re: does it gross u out??? [Re: the mike]
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im 50/50 on this dont mind it at the end when its not that noticable, but couldnt do it in middle of.

if you choose to do it though best 2 things i can suggest are


1. Dark towel down

or

2. In the shower

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#252275 - 01/03/07 12:39 AM Re: does it gross u out??? [Re: Curious2006]
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Blood is a turnon for me, so... yeah it dosen't bother me it excites me.

if it bothers you, but not him, you may try having sex in the shower.

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#252497 - 01/03/07 02:43 PM Re: does it gross u out??? [Re: Kurushio]
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idont think it wouldbe a problem but i wouldhave to use a condom otherwise i just couldnt do it

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#253411 - 01/07/07 02:34 AM Re: does it gross u out??? [Re: DisplayName]
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IMO, as Im still a virgin, the thought of having sex during her period doesn't bother me. Additionally, I would eat her out during her period as well. It sincerely doesn't bother me in any way, shape, or form.

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#253436 - 01/07/07 04:27 AM Re: does it gross u out??? [Re: rune-san]
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If chunky, rust-colored human blood on your tongue, in your mouth, and all over your face is not a problem, you're a good man.
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#253471 - 01/07/07 02:35 PM Re: does it gross u out??? [Re: Steve_A]
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heh, thx :P it just doesn't really bother me. 'Specially when I get to think of how happy she is ^_^

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#253617 - 01/08/07 03:41 AM Re: does it gross u out??? [Re: rune-san]
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One thing I personally dislike is the automatic assumption from some females that the guy will be turned off, or doesn't want to because of the fact. It's very simple to just ask the guy or say "I am on my period" and let them choose for themselves. If its something with the woman feeling uncomfortable or unwilling, that's fine but don't make that decision presuming the guy will be offended. If a guy cares about you and wants to be with you, he'll accept you with all your natural body functions included. Don't be afraid to throw it out there ladies that its your time of the month and you're still ready and willing. You still look as good, taste as good, and feel as good, little blood or not.

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#253628 - 01/08/07 04:30 AM Re: does it gross u out??? [Re: wildbk]
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> You still look as good, taste as good, and feel as good, little blood or not.

It depends on the guy, and it certainly depends on his and her religion. The taste of a menstruating woman is certainly different, to say the least. Different people have different sensibilities.
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#253647 - 01/08/07 05:18 AM Re: does it gross u out??? [Re: Steve_A]
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Originally Posted By: Steve_A
> You still look as good, taste as good, and feel as good, little blood or not.

It depends on the guy, and it certainly depends on his and her religion. The taste of a menstruating woman is certainly different, to say the least. Different people have different sensibilities.


I wasn't really referring to the taste of her crack \:\)

And being grossed out and religion is 2 different things.

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#253650 - 01/08/07 05:30 AM Re: does it gross u out??? [Re: wildbk]
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> And being grossed out and religion is 2 different things.

In some religions, a menstruating woman is considered "unclean".
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#255041 - 01/16/07 11:19 PM Re: does it gross u out??? [Re: sdp]
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i'm with you on this one. \:\)

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