Hey, I'm new to this. Me and my boyfriend have been together for 3yrs now, and i've been on 3 diff. types of birth control but nothing seems to be right for me. I've been on yaz, ortho, & the nuva ring. They all make me sick except yaz. It made me sick at first, but kept making me gain weight and be too emotional... any suggestions?.... But that really isn't what I'm posting about. Me and my guy always use a condom but one morning (my fault) I got really horny and started riding him without one. He had just went and pee'd, so doesn't that mean it cleaned out any extra sperm? he said it was atleast 5 days since he had masterbated anyway (we don't have sex very often) It felt really awesome, but I came to my senses after about 20-30 seconds and made him put one on. not to mention it was one of my most fertile days. It happened Nov. 23rd. I was supposed to start Dec. 8th. I took a pregnancy test Dec. 15th and it was negative. Yesterday, I started bleeding just a LITTLE, idk if I'd even consider this a period. Mine are usally normal to heavy w/ alot of cramping. Could it be stress? idk what the problem is. If I was pregnant, would it have already shown up? please help!!